Wednesday, October 15, 2008

Student Interview: Kristof

This is completely unedited, just the way he replied to my questions in writing.

What is your name?

- My name is Kristof Toth.

How old are you?
- I'm 14 but my birthday is on the 29 Oct. So I'm almost 15.

What are your favorite things to do?
- I like swimming,cooking,reading Harry Potter books,listening to music, watching movies,especially comedies,surfing on the Internet and playing volleyball. I like hanging out with my friends too.

What is your favorite food to cook?
- My favorite food to cook are Gyros and dishes containing tuna. I like tuna very much.

What is it like going to school in Hungary? At Kossuth Lajos?
- Going school in Hungary takes too much time of my life. It's a fact. But it's pretty cool 'cause I can meet my friends every day. Kossuth Lajos is the best school! I love learning English 20 lessons a week. It's hard but I... don't know. I love it. Am I a mutant?!

What is your favorite thing about Hungary/Budapest?
- My favorite thing in Hungary is the Capital Fun Fair. I know it isn't as big as an American Amusement Park, but Hungary is a small Country so we have a small Fun Fair.

Why should people come visit Hungary?
Hungary is a very interesting place so come and visit.In Hungary we speak "Magyar" , it's a cool language.I don't know how it sounds for a foreigner but is funny, that's for sure.We have lots of cool places here.Not just in Budapest but in the country side too.We have lots of
Wellness Hotels and Aqua Parks. Our folklore is very interesting.If you are in Budapest you have to see the "Budai Vár" The Building of the Parliament and the Westend City Center. But we have no Starbucks in Hungary. It's a pity.

*How do you feel about your American teachers? ;)
- I love my American teachers!!♥ They are awesome!!!They just like "adult-kid" people.They almost never give us homework.Woow-Woow
Thy taught us first, Love the USA especially Montana, Ohio, Maryland and Virginia.They are cool.

Is there anything else you would like to say to Miss Petty's American friends?
- Please, Send Starbucks Café to Hungary!!! Please, we need it.
Oh, and Barack means Peach in Hungarian. So what's up with Barack Obama?


* Comment: I give HW like four times a week... Emily? What have you been doing? (Okay... so maybe I have hit a HW giving slump in the past week or so... but I have also been in ill...)

Venice anyone?

Does anyone know anyone else in Venice? or anywhere near Venice? or anywhere between Venice and Florence?

I am broke. I need a couch to sleep on for two nights, October 26-28.

Let me know if you have any helpful information.

Tuesday, October 14, 2008

The Shack by William P. Young

The first time someone mentioned The Shack to me was over the summer. I had no idea what it was about, but they acted like it was sort of a big deal. I proceeded to forget what they had said and moved on with my life.

About two weeks ago it seemed like every day someone brought up The Shack, asked if I had read it, asked someone else if they could borrow it, everyone had a waiting list, etc. So I figured it was time I read it. I asked at the Christian Library when I went for Wednesday night Bible study there. Carol said that they actually do not have a copy yet, but she has a personal copy that I may borrow. Yes!

At first I was a bit horrified... I mean... the beginning of the book is very sad. Missy is kidnapped and no one knows what happened to her for sure.

And there there was a lot of doubt... is this story real? Would God really send someone a note in the mail?

Next there was conviction... I need God... Papa... Jesus... Holy Spirit... I need to be in relationship with him/them all the time. I want to talk to Papa as if I were sitting on a park bench with my best friend... not all awkward, feeling like my words spin around the room and no one hears them. I know God hears my prayers... but I still doubt.
I also feel very convicted that I am not very good at building relationships. I am selfish. Very selfish. I only want to build relationships with people who will benefit me... instead of seeing how God has put them in my life for me to serve them, to impact them. It is not about me... it's about Jesus and what He did on the the cross for EVERY person I meet... not just the ones I like!

So... basically... what I am saying is... read the book. You can buy it online or borrow it from Carol at the Christian Library in Budapest (I also think the Ballantynes and Joanna have a copy).
Also... just remember that The Shack is a book that will convict you... and then you need to turn to prayer and the word of God to act upon the conviction.

Happy reading...


PS: Mary said this and I think it is important: Conviction is from God... Guilt is from the Evil One. The Shack will convict you... in your heart.

Friday, October 3, 2008

Thanks Joanna!

Like the new look?

Thank Joanna for giving me the link to a cool site that has lots of templates....

You can get a sweet blog makeover too!

Saturday, September 20, 2008

Busy Procrastinator...

It has been over a month since I last wrote. A lot has happened in that time...

Team Mates
Everyone arrived to Hungary safely on August 20th. Since then I have really enjoyed getting to know Mary and Emily better, as well as the rest of the Hungary team. Our team here at the Bazis is getting along very well and I feel so blessed. I do miss Tracey and Lauren a lot, but I am also so grateful that God has sent such wonderful replacements.

School
School started September 1st. This year I teach 21 lessons plus "Open Bazis" which the school decided to count as an hour of teaching for us. I teach seven groups of students, only one of which I know from last year. So far I have really enjoyed the fact that students are new to school, therefore they are scared and behave very well. Of course there are exceptions, and I have had the chance to take away several ellenorzo's in the past week (that is the little blue book that students must carry with them at all time, it has their grades and behavior marks in it.) I feel the difference between being a second year teacher and not a first year teacher A LOT! And I love the second year feeling. It just helps so much to know some colleagues already, know who the Class Master is for a certain class, see familiar faces in the hallway, etc. Also... with expericne comes more responsibility. This year I have already gotten signed up to help with multiple school events: the teacher's dance at Salagavato, the Bilingual Education Anniversary Celebration, and I forsee being involved in the Christmas Talent Show also... So I am pretty busy, but enjoying it all the same.

Open Bazis
We have only had two weeks of Open Bazis so far... but it has been good. So far we have just had students from 10A come, but that is fine. Starting in October Open Bazis will be open for all of the 9th graders too. It has been so good to have the 10A's over after school, because I do not teach them at all this year. It was strange to go from spending 15 hours a week with them to zero. We have had our regulary students attend: Attila, Bence, Ony, and a few others. Hopefully as the year goes on we can build the numbers.

Livia in Budapest
Another highlight of my year: Livia is living in Pomaz, just outside of Budapest. So far we have been able to hang out at least once a week. She likes to come and hang out with my friends at Coffee House, or just chill at my house. It is cool to be able to see her so much... we have not lived this close to each other in five years. I love getting to spend time together talking. She has grown up so much in the past five years and it is so nice to build our relationship as sisters and as friends. She isn't the little tag along anymore, she's nearly a grown up. Hopefully she will learn Hungarian while she is here... but that takes time. :)

So that is the general update on life. I am going to work on a newsletter soon...

Please keep the following things in your prayers:
- Health and Energy - Teaching just sucks everything out of me at this point... I am not quite back into the groove
- Reltaionships with Students - I am really looking forward to building solid relationships with my new students and maintaining and deepening relationships with students from last year.
- Relationships with Colleagues - I have been enjoying getting to know Eva, Eva and Gabi more this year. It is so nice to talk to them now that I have known them for a whole year. I pray that God will open doors and soften their hearts towards him.
- Friends - There are just a lot of relationships with friends who are not Chrisitans, friends who are, Hungarians, Americans, etc, that I feel like God has placed in my life for a purpose. Please pray that He guide me in all of these relationships.

Grace and peace

Monday, August 18, 2008

Pécs and Miskolc Trips

The past two weekends I have taken trips to visit friends. Very different trips with very different friends.

The first trip was to Pécs and Villány with my friends from Kiskunhalas. Every few months they organize a trip or party so that everyone can get together and catch up. Since everyone has more free time in the summer we were able to go to Pécs and the vineyard and wine village of Villány. There were eight of us total and we spent Saturday in Villány learning about wine and tasting different kinds in the cellars. If you have never been down in a wine cellar I highly recommend going sometime. All of the cellars are underground and rather damp. The walls become covered with mold after a few years. In every cellar they told us that the mold is good for the taste of the wine and should not be disturbed. In some of the cellars people had pressed various coins into the mold on the walls, disgusting and cool at the same time.
On Sunday we visited the TV tower in Pécs and discovered some very skinny and steep roads in the hills there. (Thank you GPS for finding the shortest route... not the usual one... the shortest one.) After that we went to the downtown area and visited a church that was originally a mosque. It has verz interesting architecture, but I really like it. While we were in there one of my friends, Tamas, asked if I would pray for them. I was totally surprised, but jumped at the chance. I felt awkward and happy at the same time.
After that we walked down a nice pedestrian street and bought some ice cream. The girl working was really funny. They had coke flavored ice cream and Tamas asked if it was any good. She answered that it was "szar." Tamas said "excuse me?" and she repeated it... basically she just told him that it was "sh*t". Very professional. The scoops were humongous and it made me think about getting ice cream at the Pickle Barrel. I really miss that place.
That was about the extent of our trip. After that Fenyo and I had to head back to BP.

The best part of that trip was having a heart to heart conversation with Fenyo. God provided a great opportunity for me to share about how much Jesus loves us all, and how I try to live my life to show that. Then Fenyo said that he prays the Lord's prayer every night. I said that that was a great start and that he should keep doing it. We talked about a number of different things, family, faith, love, etc. Toward the end I asked him if he would come to church with me sometime. He said yes. Please pray that God will continue to work in Fenyo's heart and that when he does come to church with me he will be open and ready to hear what he needs to hear.

My other trip was to Miskolc. I went to visit my friends there, Ruth and Ati, and got to stay with another member of their church, Szilvi. Ruth is the daughter of my former German professor Dr. Dowdey and her husband, Ati, is Hungarian. They have been missionaries/ministers in Miskolc for a few years now. Anyways... on Saturday when I arrived I was greeted by Szilvi and a teenage boy, Attila (different from Ati... so confusing at times...) We had lunch at Szilvi's then we left to go to the "Gyermekvaros" or children's town. Essentially this "children's town" is an orphanage for kids who are not really orphans. Most of these kids know who their parents are, but their parents can not or do not want to take care of them. Szilvi later told me that Attila is one of nine children, and all of them live there in the children's town. Szilvi also told me that the "house" that Attila is in has about ten-fifteen boys in it who are all teenagers. This "house" is alloted 2kg of bread each day, or by Hungarian standards one big loaf or two small ones. Definitely not enough food for that many teenage boys. Almost every weekend the members of the Miskolc church of Christ go to the orphanage to visit either one of the specific "houses" or to do a big group event where everyone is invited. This time it was everyone together. There were probably about twenty kids from age 3 to 16 who came down. We sang some fun camp songs in English like: If You Love Jesus, I'm Happy Today, etc. A lot of the kids were at the English Bible Camp that the church hosts every year so they already knew the songs and were begging to sing their favorites. After we sang Ati told a parable about leopard that was adopted by a family when it was little, but then turned on the family once it grew up. A wise man had warned them that this might happen. The kids were really good at figuring out that the wise man was God/Jesus and the leopard was sin: cute at first... deadly in the end. After that we shared some snacks and did some crafts and played a game. It was really fun. The whole time I was sad in my heart. I just wanted to hug them and take care of them... but I can't take care of all of them. I was able to get a look at one of the "houses" where they live. It was a girls "house." It actually did look like an apartment in many ways. It had four bigger bedrooms with four or so beds in each of them. There was a big kitchen, a dinning area and a living room. Everything was decorated nicely with drawings and other crafts. The bedrooms were tidy, every bed made, shoes all lined up in a row. In some ways it reminded me of camp... but these kids never leave. Their parents have abandoned them. My emotions were on a bit of a roller coaster while we were there. Please pray for the orphans in Hungary. There are quite a few, and adoption is not common here.

Sunday I was pleased to attend church in Miskolc. They have a very small church in number, but they are strong in their faith. They meet in an apartment that belongs to a member who got married and moved to Germany. She decided to keep ownership and allow the church to use it as they please. This Sunday was especially nice because Ancsa, a teen who went to the Bible camp for a few years, decided to commit her life to Christ and was baptised. Bathtub baptisms are always fun to watch, but the true joy came from watching Ancsa confess Jesus as her Lord and Savior. After church we shared lunch together, played some games, went out for ice cream, then headed home. Ancsa, Szilvi and I watched a movie, then went to Ruth and Ati's to watch antoher one. Yay for movies! It was great to spend time fellowshipping with the women of the church.

Today, Monday, I got to go to the "Barlangfurdo" or cave baths. I was pretty excited about this, even though I had to go by myself. The cool part about these baths is that they are built into this hill so that you are actually inside of a cave. Unfortunately it was a little chilly so I felt like the water was too cold in all the pools except for one. I still enjoyed it though, relaxed, got some sun in, etc. I will definitely miss going to the "strand" after Aug. 31. That is when all of the "stands" in Budpest close. Too soon. Hopefully I can get at least one more visit in before school starts.

In two days the new teachers will arrive. I am pretty excited about that... but I have a ton to do tomorrow as a result. We are also having a party tomorrow night for Jo and my students from last year. Hopefully a few of them will be able to come.

Please keep Jo, Mary, Emily and I in your prayers as we prepare for the school year.

Grace and peace-
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Tuesday, August 5, 2008

Home in Hungary

I have safely returned to Hungary!

I arrived last Friday and have been trying to settle in since then. The Bazis had a little make over while I was away: we have new pergo floors in the bedrooms and they painted the walls! It looks so much better than before. I also got to upgrade rooms. Now I have what used to be Tracey's room, which is actually two rooms! So I have an "office" and a "bedroom/living room" that is all mine! The bathroom is also slightly larger, but oddly shaped and there fore it doesn't really matter that it is bigger, but I still appreciate the space.

Since I got back I have gone to Tesco 5 or 6 times, IKEA once (with a second visit scheduled for today) as well as a few other random stores to try to get things that I need like hangers, shower curtain, and other household items to keep me organized, etc. One thing has definitely dissappeard off the shelves though... those plastic hooks that stick to the wall/door with double sided sticky stuff. I bought some last year for my bathroom to hang stuff up and they worked great, but I can't find any this year. Maybe they will reappear later in the year.

Yesterday I started taking Hungarian lessons. It has been interesting so far. As far as speaking ability goes I take the cake. When it comes to grammar... I drown. I don't know any of the grammar words so that has been challenging. I can say things correctly most of the time, but I don't know why it is right. Today we were learning the difference between transitive and intransitive verbs. And then we had to conjugate based on some words that I do not understand... and so I kept messing up because I don't know what the teacher wanted. It is a lot of fun though to speak Hungarian with non-native speakers because they are actually pretty good, but then they make funny mistakes that I understand because they are translating directly from English. I find the class amusing. Hopefully I will learn a lot in the next 8 days of class.

The weather here has been quite hot. Then it rained last night. I got caught walking home in the rain and was pretty much completely soaked by the time I got home. And there was lightning. It reminded me of when Trace and I wateched a special about lightning on CNN last year... and then we were both freaked out about being outside during a lightning storm. The problem is that were I live there is no where to go if you are stuck out in it. You just have to keep going and pray that God will not smite you.

The other big project since I have returned has been budgeting. No one ever taught me how to do that. Last year I kept running out of money like five days before my next pay check... and then wondering what I had spent that money on. So... this month is evaluation month. I have kept all of my receipts, I made an excel document to enter the breakdown of what things were for, etc. I need to find out how much money I spend on groceries, personal care items, eating out, school supplies, etc. Then I can figure out how to save some money so that I am not broke. Wish me luck. (I hate money... I think it was an invention of the devil himself to tear the world apart and to distract us from God. Unfortunately "Money makes the world go round.")

Well.... that's all for now!

Please keep me in your prayers as I reconnect with my Hungarian friends and prepare for the school year.

Grace and peace-
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Sunday, July 27, 2008

APU Round 3

Well... the past two weeks have been quite exhausting. I was at APU taking classes again. The first week was Pedagogy II: Reading and Writing. The second week was Grammar. In my first two semesters I had a very distinct one good week, one bad week experience. This time around they were both above average, but not exceptional. I did a lot of reading, a lot of thinking, and a lot of analyzing sentences and writing.

It was really great to see all of my friends from there again, especially my room mates Kristi, Jen and Kara. Kristi is now engaged to a Chinese internet pop star named Matthew. I got to hear all about trying to get him a Visa to come to the states so they can get married here, what kind of cake she wants for the wedding, how they are going to a few Olympic events in August and all sorts of other exciting things. Kara teaches third grade in Korea now and loves it. I am glad that she is in the program with me because everyone besides the two of us teaches adults and college level students. Jen is always fun to be around because she is also an ESI member so we know a lot of the same people from ESI.
This was also a great chance to get to know everyone else who we study with better. In Thailand it was the first time for us to meet a lot of our cohort members because they did the first semester through ELIC, instead of at APU. I am really looking forward to seeing everyone again in Thailand in January.

Now I am in Pasadena at ESI training. I am really enjoying spending time with some people who I don't get to see all the time, and also with my new team mates Mary and Emily. I am really looking forward to a great year with them and Joanna.

My time in the states is coming to a close. I fly back to Hungary next Thursday. I am really excited to be back there, although it might be a little bit lonely. Most of my international friends will still be in America or their home country. It will be a good time to spend quality time with my Hungarian friends and to practice my Hungarian skills.

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Thursday, July 10, 2008

Beautiful Things...


My new haircut.

The "M" in Bozeman... still need to go up there...

Fuzzy picture of Bozeman....


Sunset in Bozeman


Cows on our property near Red Lodge... not our cows mind you... they keep drinking up the whole pond... my dad is really frustrated because the neighbor keeps putting a salt lick on our land... so the cows come and lick the slat and get thirsty and drink up our pond...and then my dad steals the salt lick and throws it off a cliff... i just think the calves are cute...


This is meat. Cooked in fat and grease. Yummy. Hungarian specialty.


This is the huge bed that I slept in at the Dream Castle in Paris. I missed my flight... after RUNNING through security, etc. I highly recommend the buffet dinner at the Dream Castle... it was dreamy... as was the bed...

My Home's in Montana, I wear a Bandana...

I am back in the states! I came home to MT on June 27th, a day later than planned, thank you Air France.

I spent my first week at home just hanging out with my family, working on my fund raising newsletter, and relaxing.

This second week I have been hanging out with a few friends, mostly Brian, Jake and Steph. As usual when I come home, I wonder, why don't I live here?
Bozeman is gorgeous. There are mountains all around. My family lives here. I have good friends here. I love the church here. I can do any outdoor sport I want to here. I can go to places like the Pickle Barrel, La Parilla, Mongolian BBQ, Cat Eye Cafe, and other great places to eat. Bozeman still has some small town charm. The mix of granola's, farmers, cowboys, university students, and other cool people is fairly unique to Bozeman... I love this town.

But the voice of the Lord has called me to serve Him in Hungary. I love Hungary too. Budapest has the stunning beauty of an old European city. The hills in Buda are green and filled with deciduous forests, which are my faveorite. The Danube, though not always blue, is beautiful, a great place to walk or sit by, or go on a boat ride. Budapest has all the things you want in a big city: malls, restraunts, cafe's, concerts, museums, cultural events, etc. I feel at home in Budapest, like my roots go deep there. I love learning new things about Hungarian culture... and believe me... I run into new things all the time! I love how ernestly the church in Hungary is seeking God. I love Hungarian hospitality.

There are so many great things about Bozeman and Budapest. A part of my heart will always rest in these two towns... but I have left pieces of my heart in other places too. Heidelberg and Cologne, Germany stole bits of my heart, Malibu and the greater LA area have also. These are places that I love to be...

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Fund Raising... so... for this next year I need about $10,000. Right now I have $300. On Monday I am supposed to pay for tuition, books and housing at APU... not to mention... buying groceries.
Please pray for that to get worked out... I need about $2,000 on Monday.

APU!
Next week I start my third semester of APU... I am really excited to see everyone again... not so excited about going to class... that's life.

Please keep me in your prayers as I am fund raising, studying and traveling around the US.

When you get to the end of all the light you know

and it's time to step into the darkness of the unknown,

faith is knowing that one of two things shall happen:

either you will be given something solid to stand on,

or you will be taught how to fly.

-Edward Tellar